Cassinova Felix

Our beloved Cassinova Felix passed away on Thursday. He was 13.5 years old.

In September, we found out he had Kidney Disease. Our vet told us it wasn’t time to put him to sleep. She said with some medication, flushing out his kidneys and by keeping him very hydrated, he may make a full recovery. We fought for him for 4.5 months. He also fought for himself during that time. And, for a while, he improved and did okay. But, last week, we decided that his quality of life was such that it wasn’t fair to him to keep putting him through the regimen he was going through just to stay alive because we didn’t want to say goodbye. At the end, he only weighed 4 lbs and could barely walk. … We’re trying to remember him as he was before he got sick.

We found Cassie in July 1998, four months after we were married. At the time, we couldn’t see any sign of his manhood so we named him Cassie thinking he was female. When we got him fixed, we were surprised to find out he was male. We lengthened his name to Cassinova. (We know Casanova is the proper spelling, but we like our spelling for him.)

Cassie’s name fit him to a T. He was the most loving, friendly kitty anyone could ever meet. Even people who hated cats liked him. He was always so inquisitive and excited to meet new people.

In fact, Cassie turned Corey into a cat person. Corey didn’t much care for them when we found him. But, he was so cute and acted kind of like a dog. He would always fetch his toy mice. Soon, Corey fell in love with him and now would rather have a cat than a dog.

Although our kitties are inside kitties, Cassie loved to play outside. Every now and then, we’d go out with him and let him play in the grass and run around. It was fun to watch him have so much fun. He also loved strawberries, particularly strawberry yogurt and creamies.

We miss Cassie dearly. We miss his presence. All the places that he used to sleep in seem empty. Our two other kitties are missing him too. They keep looking for him, not understanding why we don’t bring him home. Right now, we can’t get through a day without crying or feeling depressed in some way because we miss him so much. The only comfort and peace we have is that we’re happy he’s no longer suffering and that we’ll see him again someday. For now, I guess that’ll have to do.

Nearly Wordless Wednesday

I took this picture last year. Even though it's blurry, I really like how it turned out. It seems artistic with the house and fence in the background.

Wordless Wednesday

This picture was taken by me earlier this week.  I love how artsy it feels with its blurriness.  I chose an alternate picture for Project 365 similar to this one, but it’s actually in focus.

A Fun Day and 12 Years

Tomorrow is Corey’s and my 12th anniversary.  Because our anniversary falls on a Sunday this year, we decided to celebrate our anniversary today.  However, because of homework and other obligations on both of our parts, we decided just to go see a movie together and give each other gifts.  (We haven’t given each other an anniversary gift for most of our marriage so this is a big deal for us.)

Corey bought me a Canon powershot.  I mentioned to Corey a couple of weeks ago that a digital camera would be a nice gift since we didn’t have one anymore and since we’ve never had a nice one.  Corey did some research and found out that the powershot has great reviews and really nice features.  The camera comes in gray, light blue, or hot pink.  He chose the hot pink and I love it!  It’s so fun!

He actually gave it to me a few days ago when it came in the mail.  I’ve been checking out its features and taking pictures ever since.  It’s awesome!  It has a timer, which is so cool.  Here are some of the pictures I’ve taken with my camera this week.

I gave Corey stone sculpting tools (pictured above).  He’s going to pick up some stone next week so he can use his tools.  I can’t wait to see what me makes.  I bet it’s great no matter what it is.  When it comes to art, he’s very talented.

We chose to see Alice in Wonderland.  Corey and I are both big Tim Burton, Johnny Depp, and Danny Elfman fans.  We adored the movie.  It was a great adaptation of the story.  All the actors performed superbly, especially Johnny (but what doesn’t he do well in?–nothing).  The effects were great and added so much to the experience.  I don’t think the movie would’ve been nearly as good had Tim Burton not directed it.

After the movie, I went out to lunch with Karey Shane.  We had a great time together.  It was great to get to know each other more.  By reading each other’s blogs, we’ve discovered that we have a lot in common and it was nice to expound on those similarities.

After lunch, I came home.  Corey and I have been spending some time together watching TV, playing with the cats, and playing on our computers.  Even though this anniversary has been/is low key, it’s been a great day, and it will be nice to spend time with each other again tomorrow (even if it’s the first day of Daylight Saving Time).

It’s hard for me to believe we’ve been married for 12 years, and, at the same time, it’s hard to believe we’ve only been married for 12 years.  (I think I say that every year.)  We haven’t had it easy.  We’ve had our share (and then some) of financial woes, health problems, and other personal matters, but it’s been worth it.  I’m glad I married Corey and even knowing what I know our life has been like, I would’ve still married him 12 years ago.  I know I couldn’t have done better than I did and I look forward to the next 12 years.

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Going for the Jugular

In the post Dax, the Killer, I posted the results to a quiz I took about her.  That quiz told Corey and me there was a 96% chance that Dax is trying to kill us.  She made her first attempt on Sunday.

Corey

We took the picture after Corey had wiped up most of the blood and the wound had started to clot.  This picture doesn’t show how bad it really was.  It wasn’t deep enough to get stitches, but I kept telling Corey it looked like she had sliced his carotid because it was bleeding so much.

PS–She didn’t really mean to.  She was trying to climb over Corey while he was laying down and accidentally scratched his neck.  Or, at least, that’s what we’re telling ourselves to give us some peace of mind.